Have you ever wanted to know what you can do to bridge the gap in your unique differences in marriage? We attract our opposites for a reason: they serve us in some way. And in other ways, they might drive us crazy!
You will find in this course a deep dive into why we do what we do, and how to appreciate and honor the various character traits in each of us.
The topics for this course are as follows:
Attachment Styles: Cave, Wave, or Lighthouse
Withdraw/Pursue Patterns
Personalities, 3 different typing systems
The Drama Triangle
Boundaries in Marriage
The Feminine and Masculine
Attachment and Differentiation
Satisfying Needs
Marriage Alchemy
My Guy, My Gal Capstone
The details of the topics are as follows:
Specify your attachment style after The Cave experience.
Learn details of your one of four attachment styles.
Clarify your cycle of withdraw and pursue, and how to accept each other despite it
Learn 3 different personality typing systems and how they can be crucial in truly understanding each other in marriage, including introversion/Extroversion and Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN)
Learn 3 unhealthy roles in marriage and 3 counter healthy roles instead.
Find out all about boundaries and why you would - or would not- need them in marriage in order to differentiate, and a simple boundaries formula for creating good connection.
Learn about toxic vs divine femininity and masculinity in marriage and how to find a happy balance individually to create cohesion together.
Understand how attachment and differentiation leads to interdependency in marriage.
Explore the 3 parts of the “Needs Flower” for him and her and what happiness in marriage really means.
Break apart the “Philosopher’s Stone” to see what an alchemic union in marriage looks like.
Truly see, know, and understand your sweetheart through answering the fun questions in this “telling” guide.
(You may want to set up a timeline for you to complete each section - like 15 minutes a day recorded on a phone reminder. This is to your success!)
I hope you will find great value in this journey of discovering - or rediscovering- yourself and spouse in an endearing marriage union!
